Re: naive, maybe, but it's inevitable
What you claim to want is what Israel is.
It's just a shame that the Jew hate you share with the Palestinians and other Arabs scrambles your senses and falsely projects on to Israel all the hateful actions and desires that the Arab world wants to inflict on the Jews. If you were able to see through your hate of the concept of Jews having equal rights, and that they should not have to live as less than humans, not have to pay special taxes to be granted the right not to be instantly killed, but even having paid those taxes, that they can still be lawfully murdered because they are non-Muslim, you might start to see that in the mass of intolerance and hate in the region, it is only in Israel where all citizens have equal rights. The Jewish citizens of Israel have no greater rights than non-Jewish citizens, and the Jewish citizens actually have greater restrictions put on them (for example, it is only Jews who can't pray everywhere or anywhere in Israel - but this example only really affects the religious nutters and not the majority) and generally have higher obligations to the state than their non-Jewish brethren.
Being Pro-Palestinian isn't about destroying Israel.
Being Pro-Palestinian is protesting at the disgraceful conditions most Palestinians in Gaza, Judea and Samaria are kept in by their leaders. Being Pro-Palestinian is protesting against those Palestinian leaders for using the Palestinians as exploitable slaves and cannon fodder. Being Pro-Palestinian is protesting against those Palestinian leaders for failing to make any attempts at peace with Israel. Being Pro-Palestinian is changing Palestinian culture away from hate and intolerance and acceptance of human rights for all. Being Pro-Palestinian is changing the Arab mind set that treats Palestinians as disposable assets in the war against the Jews. Being Pro-Palestinian is protesting against the apartheid type systems enforced in the Arab world that deny Palestinians citizenship, jobs and other basic rights, and is not falsely claiming Israel is an apartheid state. Being Pro-Palestinian is protesting when Arabs kill Palestinians, not just protesting when Israel is forced in to defensive actions. Being Pro-Palestinian isn't blaming Israel for the world's ills. Being Pro-Palestinian is protesting against the desire to commit genocide against the Jew, and is not claiming there is a genocide against the Palestinians.
If you are not doing these things, you don't really care about Palestinians at all, you are not Pro-Palestinian, and are just anti-Israel. If you are not doing these things, your hate of Jews tries to use being Pro-Palestinian as a cover for your antisemitism.
Only when these things change, and Israel doesn't respond appropriately, will there start to be justification for the labels currently incorrectly applied to Israel. Those changes are what Israel is waiting for so that Israel can live in peace with its neighbours.
Peace doesn't come from the mindset that says eliminating Israel is the answer.