Same complaints here. But also, utilities such as OpenShell and TaskbarTweaker that attempt to make Windows 11 look more like older versions seem to break every time that explorer.exe receives an update, which is surprisingly often. So you either have to defer updates, disable updates, or disable the utility for a week or two until an update is pushed.
Meanwhile, even lightweight window managers for *NIX allow a great deal of customization to the UI, file manager, program manager, and so on. All built in.
Then there is the great shift from control panel to the settings panel, where the latter only has a subset of the functionality of the former, so you are constantly having to bounce between the two. At least the control panel still exists.
It just all seems like change for the sake of change, which people like myself really hate. Which is why I only have one laptop on Windows 11 while the rest of my machines are running Windows 10. And I've been debating as to if I should grab a LTSC version of W10 or Server 2022 for that laptop instead of suffering for longer with W11.