I can undestand that you didn't quite (enormous understatement I'd say) like your experience with Xen-Orchestra, but that doesn't justify the lies.
* Xen, the hypervisor, is well alive and kicking, thank you.
Lately specializing on "the other architecture" (i.e. arm64) and focusing on embedded workloads (e.g. automotive)
* AWS did use Xen as their hypervisor. They later migrated over to Nitro, their own concoction.... which isn't quite KVM, by the way
(Whereas everything else, including Nutanix's AHV, is based on KVM AFAIK)
...which means that, yes, Xen can manage hyperscale workloads too (AWS wasn't significantly less "ginormous" back then as compared to present size -- same league of "infinity")
* Citrix XenServer is probably mostly a dead-end, yes.... but the Hypervisor project (for the backend) and VATES' virtualization stack/XenOrchestra (and maybe even XOSAN --- haven't tried so can't comment) (for the frontend) are truly alive and releasing new versions regularly (including all kind of security patches), with a good and expanding ecosystem of partners.
But, what would I know.....
- Experienced Xen hypervisor user+sysadmin since Dec 2006 (yes, we had to patch our own kernels back then)
- At some time, even Citrix Partner (2010-2014)
- Have moderate experience with XOA... though we mostly manage our in-house fleet (smallish MSP) with our custom-built tools, and have done so essentially "forever"
and, well, my experience with KVM and KVM-derived products is quite less than stellar. Maybe I'm very much used to Xen's "just works" ---at least for my use cases--- rather than having to wrestle with a myriad of half-cooked third-party tools which don't quite fit anything but the most basic use cases.
Moreover, anything Xen I have used (except for XSR5.5) is way more stable, predictable, diagnoseable and repairable (IME) than even the most expensive VMware toolstack. YM *will* Vary.
I do agree with some other comentards, though, in that most "sub-hyper" CSPs (on KVM) must be running their own toolstacks (just like we do, on Xen)
...but you were referring to Enterprise/Mid-Enterprise kind of workloads, weren't you ?
I guess in your world, anyone who doesn't blindly agree with you / don't have the same experience must be "insane"... ah, the youngsters xD