Re: "but there is still a difference between a state that intends to organize itself to loo"
The difference isn't in how bad things can be. Some of the worst dictatorships have been communist, and some have not. The difference is only in the appearance and structure, with some related effects on exactly how badly it is run. One major appearance difference is in the structure of the economy, as communist countries tend to talk a lot more about the ostensible strength of the worker than non-communist dictatorships, organizations tend to be legally depowered instead of just practically depowered by government action, and many organizations would be state-owned instead of private. This doesn't make them better or worse. It's like the difference between desktop environments on Linux; they look different and have different effects on the user's workflow, but they all basically do the same thing.
China under Mao spouted a lot of the classic communism points and set up some of its trademark social programs [complete fiascos]. The Soviet Union codified a lot of those things originally. Cuba and North Korea still sound like that today. Non-communist dictatorships often sound very different, if no less menacing. China today, though, is not structured like it once was and no longer uses the classic indicators of communism. It has adopted a less communist appearance, but is no less authoritarian than it was. They switched off "communist theme" on the UI, that's all.