Re: Who gets the money?
"putting a cookie on a browser doesn't constitute a monetary damage to the owner or user of the iphone."
They're trespassing on the phone. If someone were to trespass on your land by parking their car on your drive you'd probably feel you had cause to sue them for trespass.
Ummm, trespassing? The cookie as designed more than 20 years ago, was setup as per RFC2109 to maintain HTTP sessions. It was understood at the time, if you didn't want to accept the "cookie" then you didn't go to that site.
Fast forward to today, and people insist on trespassing on some company's servers and don't want to accept a "cookie" in exchange. Since your phone is being used to travel to someone else's land. That is not trespassing onto your since your phone is being used to trespass.
This is more like "Doctor Syntax" has parked their car on on google's property and is trying to refuse to accept the "take-a-number" for standing in line. Though, not necessarily okay on Google's behalf, you might want to get your analogies straight.
(The reason why I can say this is the browser is moving from page to page, but the server is stationary.)