"EV arent bad but the charging times are horrific for mass transport."
If by mass transit you mean busses, city busses travel known routes and take a break multiple times per day. They are also big vehicles with room for plenty of batteries of a type that can recharge very quickly in exchange for being less energy dense.
"If entire cities converted all their ICE to EV then the grid would collapse in short order, those cities would brown out."
Most EV owners do their charging at night when both demand and prices are low. The claim of the grid not being able to handle the load is piffle. It's actually a boon for electrical utilities as they have massive amounts of unused capacity at night that they'd love to continue making money with. If the wind is blowing in the wee hours, they have to shut that off since it can unbalance the network. If they could signal EV's that there's a sale on leccy, they'd have a place to stuff all of those magic pixies rather than denying their creation.
" H2 on the otherhand would not, people would go to filling stations, the same as ICE."
Now you need yet another distribution network for a very hard to contain gas. CH4 already leaks all over the place and that infrastructure would be hopeless for H2. A huge benefit of having an EV is never having to visit a filling station and having a full "tank" each morning if you like.