Re: 41 good, 44 bad?
it's better to be inside the train pissing out, than outside the train trying to piss in.
I'd prefer that people did their pissing in the toilets, not anywhere near my train. I'm certainly tired of EU politicians pissing over their voters.
despite the 'no deal' rubbish going around
I think that you fundamentally misunderstand the reason that "no deal" has to remain a credible option. It's a basic and simple fact of negotiating tactics, if you can't convince your partner that you're willing to walk away, you'll never get the best deal.
Obviously there has to be a deal long-term. One of the principal reasons for leaving the EU is so that we can (re-)negotiate our own deals with our partners, and that will of course include the EU. How well those deals will turn out is a subject for debate, but is not the issue here. "No deal now" does not, and cannot, mean "no deal ever", and no-one is suggesting that.
The question is whether we need such a deal before we leave, or not. The EU is pushing for a deal before it lets us leave, because it will have more influence over such a deal while we're still subject to EU control. It makes perfect sense for the EU to take that position, but that isn't necessarily the best for the UK. This is why the UK has to convince the EU that we're willing to leave without a deal if the EU won't offer a good deal. It most certainly does not mean that we'll never do a deal.
The problem with all the idiots in Westminster saying "we'll stop you leaving without a deal" is that it plays directly into the hands of the EU negotiators, they have absolutely no need to make concessions in order to get a deal if they can see that we'll be forced to take whatever they offer.
It's like going into a dealer to buy a new car. You might have all your negotiating arguments lined up, and be ready to convince the salesman that you'll walk out if he doesn't come up with a good price, but if your wife tells the salesman "I love that car, I've told him we can't leave without buying it" she completely blows all your arguments out of the water. The salesman knows that all he has to do is wait, because your threats to go elsewhere are just a bluff.
That, sadly, is the position that Toxic Theresa and the clowns who voted against no deal have put us in. Can Boris & IDS convince the EU that we really would just leave cold if we don't get a better deal? Maybe, but it's a much harder job now than it was 2 years ago.