Re: Please - read the history
If this was on the back of decades of the UK governments trying to reform the EU from within, I'd say "vote leave - you've done your best; they're never going to learn".
But it isn't; the UK most definitely hasn't; and I hope you stay. Be part of the solution, rather than walking away.
Andrew's article is probably the most reasoned, thoughtful argument for a leave that I've seen, although he makes the common mistake of imagining that all of the UK is like England. Others have pointed out what was happening in Northern Ireland while the UK was joining the EEC. I lived there at the time, although very young, and I'm glad that the Westminster government stepped in, rather than walking away and leaving NI to its own evil devices - as bad as having the British Army pointing guns at British citizens was, it was better than the alternative.
Stepping in, rather than walking away.
This piece gets to the heart of the problem with the EU -it's out of touch. A cosy cartel of middle-class "right-on" self-interests that has alienated the working classes to the point where only the far-right hatemongers can offer them anything. Very few in 1930's Germany would have put the NSDAP's stringent anti-Jewish policies at the top of their reasons for voting, but they certainly appreciated the ideas of "more jobs, more security, less vested interests, less corruption" and "making Germany great again" enough to enable the worst episode in Europe's history.
If we all let things as they are, we will sleepwalk into hatred. But that doesn't mean that the UK should walk away. Walking away won't fix the disease, because the UK has a bad case of it already...
If you're not a Labour or Conservative voter, do you really have any say in how your country is run? Worse: as both of those parties are on a knife-edge, they're afraid to take any kind of meaningful stand for fear of handing power completely to the other (Labour are particularly guilty here). The electoral system creates reactionary politics. Nobody will lead, and everyone defines themselves by who they're not.
Also, I'm no fan of UKIP, but an electoral system that gave 12.9% of the voting public just a single voice in a 650-seat parliament is hard to describe as "democratic". I don't care that theirs is a voice I strongly disagree with - all that matters is that over one in ten people who voted in the UK wanted it heard. In the long run, it's better for the more extreme viewpoints to get a good airing, because it robs them of their moral high-ground of being "persecuted by the system". Calling them "racists and bigots" is deflection: democracy is about accepting the decision of all the people, not just the people who went to the same kind of school as you did.
The European Parliament is elected on a more representative system, so the irony is that a pro-Leave party like UKIP gets its only significant say in how the UK is governed by virtue of its 9 MEPs (from 73). Its single MP (from 650) has practically no power.
So, yes, the people of the UK are living under a democratic deficit, but leaving the EU will probably magnify it.