Art of the possible
I have a certain amount of sympathy for both sides in this case.
Adding more lines of code implies more maintenance and it's already hard to find maintainers - needing specific skills from an even smaller set of potential candidates isn't going to help.
Equally, we've probably all been in situations where NIH-syndrome has led to foot-dragging.
However, the real problem is seems to me is that the scope, benefits and timeline of Rust for Linux are ill-defined. Indeed, they don't appear to be mentioned anywhere on the project website. It seems mostly focused at present on providing the infrastructure for writing device-drivers in Rust, but acknowledges that deprecation of duplicate drivers in Linux means there are unlikely to be Rust replacements for current drivers. The highly hardware-dependent nature of drivers makes them a good place to shake down the mechanisms by which you'd run Rust code in the kernel, but so much of the memory management is done by the Linux driver framework that you would imagine the gains from Rust's memory safety might be fairly modest - and in any case have to await hypothetical future drivers for devices for which no driver currently exists. I don't see any roadmap for introducing Rust into other parts of the kernel, or any analysis of where the benefits might most be felt.
Of course, there is also the problem that transformational change in a project like Linux is very hard to achieve - it's mature, its stability is critical and it proceeds mostly by discrete incremental changes to is myriad components. You have to start with what you have - and that includes the people as well as the code - and juggle the various competing requirements.
In open source, the solution to a particular problem also depends on the interests of the people working on it. In this case, the only people working seriously on memory safety in the kernel seem to be Rust developers. I can't help feeling it would be a very different conversation if a group were considering adding Rust-like features to a version of C that could over time be incorporated into the existing code.
Like politics, it's the art of the possible and that means not only having a solution but persuading other people to adopt it.