Valentine's Day is a Trigger Garden
You set yourself up.
Too many plays, movies and stories have glorified love poem plot expectation to unrealistic heights.
Valentine's Day is a tightrope.
And even if you do blow their mind, it just sets you up for a harder gauntlet next year , simultaneously hijacking your gesture by diluting it into the bin of general holiday expectation.
Keep Valentine's Day chill with casual familier shows of loving sentiment to guard against culture-triggered insecurities.
Deploy your super romance gestures on a holiday-forsaken day that otherwise would just be ordinary-tedium. Packs a bigger punch for the same payload without the social gauntlet readied against you from the start.
Biting the hand that feeds IT
