The middle finger has been in the emoji set since Unicode 7.0 in 2014, as U+1F595.
The closest you’ll get to “wanker” is Waving Hand, U+1F44B, which has the delightful side-effect of making its recipient thing you were actually saying hello.
(... much like replying “Good For You!” to an email, with the capital letters conveying your real meaning.)