Re: forgive me
It's both, by most dictionaries:
https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/disinterest
https://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/definition/english/disinterest
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/disinterest
Is this something that comes from long misuse? Maybe, probably. But it IS now the norm, even if you may not like it. Language evolves.