Divorce after every argument?
If your spouse starts taking ever greater portions of your income for their own desires, spends it frivolously & capriciously on things you were never consulted on, loses you massive amounts of money on said speculative gambling, & refuses to even entertain the idea of talking to you to debate your side of the issue, not only would I want a divorce but a restraining order, an independant audit of their finances to claw back my money, & a mandatory psychiatric evaluation to force them to get help for their obviously sociopathic tendencies.
Disruptive? YES it'll be disruptive, as in it'll put a heavy boot on the neck of the lying & theiving little fucker to stop their graft. That's the whole. fucking. point.