Shoving idealogies in someone's though face is not a very positive way to go about achieving respect
Well indeed, which is why I wouldn't dream of telling someone with a functioning uterus that they must be male. Which defining all intersex peoples as 'male' would require.
While medically it's helpful to categorise people in order to more effectively treat them, socially it's all entirely irrelevant. I'm not going to fuck you whether you call yourself a man, a woman or a (Twitch Safety Council) deer, so you dress as you choose, label yourself as you choose and I'll treat you just the same as I do everybody else.
On that I think we do agree.