Re: "Now they are your best friends? sigh..."
I am sorry. I have much admiration for the US - and have lived and worked there for a respectable amount of time, but NO, the 'American way' does not include 'standing up to government and power - tech or otherwise - and scrutinizing it' - although some very decent and informed Americans (as in the rest of the world) do so. You seem to be living in an alternative universe.