Re: I find the argument bizarre
No, you don't need to list every single thing, precisely why I said that laws forbid killing somebody with a woodchipper even when the OP pretended he was not aware of any such ban.
However, when you encourage people to look at each other calendars, then it's a little odd to suddenly assert that it's stalking.
Unless you were personally a witness to those warnings, you're just accepting as fact what one side is saying.
And the two sides do seem to differ quite a bit on what was said about the reasons for the dismissals.