Have you asked your DNO? I mean 30amps for the house you wouldn't even be able to have an electric shower or cooker & hob.
Even a kettle at the same time as a fan heater would be risky.
However if that is the case then you won't be able to charge an EV until they upgrade the substation - same as people who couldn't have a mobile phone until they put a cell tower in their area. If you live in the sticks sometimes you can't have nice things, but you get other advantages so it doesn't matter.