Maybe it is time to move on.
I am quite fine with competing purely based on merit and effort.
I know that a lot of males in my industry have behaved in a way that allowed them to succeed in a way that does not correlate with merit and effort.
I understand the reaction to this that promotes the idea of enforcing a method for females to enable them to succeed in a way that does not correlate with merit and effort as a valid response.
I do not need to succeed beyond what I earn by merit and effort.
I also do not need to stick around in an environment that prevents me from being able to succeed in line with my merit and effort.
So maybe its time to create a new industry. There are enough mechanisms now to enforce anonymity while supporting the economic, informational and business transactions to support fully anonymised informational industries. Being fully anonymised, gender cannot become an issue.