Re: As an insider...
"To quote one forum member "If a Joe wants to be called Jane, then call him Jane."
Calling him Jane is likely to get you into trouble for not calling her Jane. It's a tricky world we seem to have invented for ourselves - or at least someone has invented it for us."
You assume Jane identifies as a woman. *THAT* can get you into trouble. Particularly if you're taking passage on a certertain Firefly...
Yes, a tricky world indeed.