@Teiwaz:Re: @AC:As she is 14 years old
Teiwaz,
methinks my point skimmed your head by a few inches, I DID NOT state, imply, or suggest that there are NO countries/states/communities in the world where a 14 yo may be assumed to be 'between' that of an adult and a child.
The world is not binary to me, but how I interact and parent our son is [most of the time].
FYI wife no 1 &I went throught the whole formal process of being approved as adoptive parents here in England, to say that opened my eyes to having a sprog is a bit of an understatement...
Ymhv.
Thanks for your input (not being sarcy btw!)
Jay.