Re: I'm not sure why I'm doing this in the 21st century but....
"Nobody here said women haven't."
"DainB - Bronze badge - The third option is to hire best person to do the job. Which means there won't be any women in IT at all."
Pull the other one. It has bells on. Also the general attitude that earned Have I Got News For You complaints when Jo Brand took Hislop to task for his attitude to sexual harassment. https://www.theguardian.com/media/2017/nov/16/have-i-got-news-for-you-where-jo-brand-rebuked-all-male-panel-tops-complaints
It's these throw away comments that people make in forums like this, that are a part of the problem. And when anyone speaks out about it... all hell gets let loose in an effort to devalue the point.
"Actually, for women if you’re constantly being harassed, even in a small way, that builds up and that wears you down.” - which is what is happening here.