Re: I am an Aspie. I don't hack stuff and then cry like a baby.
@Lost all faith...
We were really lucky with our son's diagnosis (not for PDD, just straight up autism), Ive heard some horror stories from people who had to fight to get the diagnosis and to get any level of help by the sounds of it you've got a similar story!
Its something that we really need to work on in this country, it does seem to be getting better but very slowly.