Man has a full glass of water. Woman has an empty glass of water.
Waiter comes along and pours water in the woman's empty glass.
Man who deliberately and disingenously misunderstands the purpose of feminism says "hey I want you to pour as much water into my glass as you poured into her glass".
After the poor man fusses and moans long enough the waiter just relents and pours water into the man's already full glass which instantly overflows and spills all over the table.
Am I getting through to you?