Re:"they didn't put people in a tiger cage for years for example"
Nom the tiger cage has just come down, and some people are not emotionally strong enough for it.
And if ALM has been keeping details of people that had paid to be unsubscribed, then there is practically a guarantee that some of those "subscribers" had joined when single, found love somewhere else, delisted (or so they thought), and now find themselves in this shitter through no fault of their own.
Those of you gloating at the suicide toll should think of that for a moment. Then go hang your head in shame.