I got told person_A was upset by something I said one time
So I said , I'm not licensed therapists, and I'm diagnosed autistic.
It is not reasonable or realistic for you to expect me to understand someone else's feelings when I can't even comprehend my own. It is even more inappropriate for you to expect me to take a misappropriated credit for someone else's personal strategy of emotion generation, fallout of childhood conditioning and choice of expression
Everyone's feelings are their own demons to manage asas
Even if I had the powers of mind control or the social engineering skills to suppress other people's feelings I would not. That is off limits. That exclusive realm belongs to them and their therapist if any.
HR didn't know what to say that . HR never bothered me again