Re: Half an hour doing dishes is enough to make the small of my back burn
My male parent *built* our house, and he was about 6' 3". He departed this mortal coil some 30+ years ago after an attempt to dodge being arrested by consuming sodium cyanide failed initially, and the long term affect nuked his liver. My female parent was 5' 4", and complained bitterly about the counter/cabinet arrangements (to this day, still chugging along). I learned to cook in that kitchen, and find *any* counter anywhere too low as I was acclimated to working above what is considered the optimal level for my height (5' 10"). My spouse on the other hand insists the current counters are too high, I find them too low, and both of the currently resident offspring can't find the counters. (Dishes *everywhere* else)
Its all relative to your experience. One case where "standard" sucks.