Since the internet selects for natural monopolies, we need progressive net neutrality. Nerf the shit out of Facebook and other American sites, to give local solutions room to grow.
All sites are neutral. But some sites are more neutral than others.
As for those "sites deemed to be useful to those in the developing world by a condescending Westerner", they'll promote American big business solutions which won't help, and will actually make things worse.
There's a saying that Africa solves Africa's problems, and India will be no different. (Home-grown solutions will solve the problem in a way unforeseen by someone who isn't born and bred in that environment)