It's alright.
I've spent the last couple of years making sure that all the staff at my workplace, and my bosses, know one thing:
We are no longer in control of updates.
It's that simple. If an update deploys in the middle of the day and breaks stuff? Nothing I can do. If an update chooses an inconvenient time and you can't defer it? Nothing I can do. If an update brings down the servers? Nothing I can do.
There's plenty I can do about all the other stuff I deal with, but Windows Updates are no longer in my control, and they should know that.
It rebooted at 9am right in the middle of your presentation? (shrug).
Your machine took an hour to update last night while you needed to work? (shrug)
Your machine keeps bugging you about rebooting but you don't want to because you're working? (shrug)
Your machine deployed an update and now something doesn't work properly? (shrug)
Patch Tuesday knocked out a dozen of our VM's? (shrug)
I can restore from backup. I can reinstall. I can restart. I can hope for a hotfix. That's it.
MS took the control away from me... so they can take the responsibility with it.
I've been prepping my employers and all their employees for that. I think everyone else should too.
And it applies to other things:
MS took away a menu in Word? (shrug).
They bundled Copilot into your file explorer? (shrug).
It keeps trying to set Edge as default no matter how many times we tell it not to? (shrug)
Teams/Outlook is now in bundled in Original, Ready Salted, (new), (new) (New), etc. versions and things don't work the same between them? (shrug)
MS says your computer is obsolete and you need a new one to run Windows 11? (shrug)
You decided this is the only OS you can use, and the manufacturers of that OS have imposed their requirements on you. Follow them. Because I, basically, can do nothing but fire-fighting on them and I get absolutely zero official assistance from them in doing so. Even gathering information, resources and solutions on ONE SUCH PROBLEM for today would take up all my time, and the solution would be "can't do that" and I'd only find that at the bottom of some third-party comments on an MS KB article as the most "prestigious" source, let alone the fact that the only real information and pointers to that would be spread across Reddit and a thousand other sites with other people like me similarly fire-fighting under pressure with no assistance.
And most of the time? I can't say "yeah, I fixed that". Because next week... another Windows Update will land unannounced. And that'll change the browser default silently. And I look like a fool. So... no... I'm not going to say that I've fixed it. I'm going to tell the truth. Microsoft keep breaking it. There's nothing I can do.
Honestly... MS are talking themselves out of being the dominant OS. It'll take years to happen, but that's what's going to happen. Because *I'm* more sick of it than I've ever been and I've just given up. It won't be long before users feel the same.