Time to consider PgSQL
Again....
There's a lot that Postgres does which requires masses of jumping through hoops in MySQL - and MySQL quite simply doesn't scale, resulting in a lot of effort going into tuning once your installation starts growing (there's also the woeful lack of replication ability to consider)
MySQL is a good database and useful for what it does, but far too many people are using it well beyond its designed use cases. I spent years banging heads against management who wasted man-YEARS trying to "stick with what we know" instead of biting the bullet and taking the step to a "proper" database which does natively what they were forcing people to code externally
MySQL was great 30 years ago when I was using systems with a whole 8MB of ram, but the greater initial memory/cpu footprint of PgSQL hasn't been an issue for at least 20 years