Why are we still arguing this stuff?
While never a DB chap, I always took an interest in data (and knowledge) representation and storage.
A book that I read in the 1990s viz
Logical Introduction to Databases, John Grant OUP 1995
made me appreciate that the relational model was logical abstraction that could mostly be divorced from its physical implementation. This was a major point in Codd's original paper. Whether you used SQL or QUEL or similar you could locate data without any understanding of how it might be stored ie declarative in nature.
I guess many of the arguments are about ACID and other properties which span both the logical and physical aspects of databases.
As always "you pays your money and makes your choice."
I am gratified to note that Postgres is alive and kicking (arse? ;) which must give Michael Stonebraker some pleasure.