Re: It really is a choice, honest...
Wow, I think you've hit the nail on the head here. What women are facing are these very attitudes, attitudes that are around 50-100 years out of date.
Having children takes time out, however an enlightened employer would look at everybody and ask what can they bring to a business? The fact that people need to work around things is part of business, are you advocating that disabled people shouldn't work because businesses have to accomodate their needs? We've just been through a pandemic and IT businesses managed to have people working from home, working remotely, working funny hours to accomodate childcare. Clever businesses learnt to adapt.,
There's a work force out there wanting to work, the savvy businesses look at the whole workforce and wonder how to use them, change the hours here and there to accomodate childcare and pick up from school, let people work late in the evening to do whats needed. Restricting your workforce to 50% of the population seems rather short sighted to me.
I'm ex-IBM (hence being anonymous) and I had a large project with circa 150 people on, one person's child had a major accident and he needed to be home to provide support and care for his wife and child. We had a discussion and he then worked from 18:00 to around 02:00 each night, way outside core hours. A lot of nervousness about him working like this (this is ten years before Covid), could he keep up, could he work from home sensibly? Were comms going to work? We adapated and he showed us that working like was great. His productivity increased, his quality increased, he was a PBC 2 and became a PBC2+ as the work was great. I've had women leave on maternity leave and come back, sure we had to move things around, but we had a happy workforce, we all have to make adapations for stuff. The days of the all seeing/all knowing/god like boss are long gone, thank god. We work together as a team and we make it work because thats what good business and good teams do.
I've had projects with lots of women in as developers and architects and they were great projects to work with and on.
Anybody who excludes women in the workplace is short sighted and not getting the best people in.
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