Re: Preaching to the converted
Same here - I get the "so what" response from the bunch of FaecesBorg and WhatsUpDoc users in the family.
SWMBO got an Alexa Dot for Christmas off one of our lasses - and it was made quite clear that I had no say in the matter. Cue swiftly kicking it off the guest network when I got home to find No2 daughter was busy setting it up, and onto a segregated network specially for the IoTat - we've since been afflicted with a Firestick as well.
Of course, SWMBO accuses me of hypocrisy when I use them - to which I respond that it's their presence in the first place I'm against, but since I've lost that battle I might as well get some positive benefit from them.
TL;DR version: All these devices and services offer many positive benefits. It's just that the vendors have proven themselves incapable of trust. If, from the early days, they'd offered a "snoop free, paid offering" and proven themselves trustworthy then there would be a loss less trouble. As it is, they've proven that even if they offered such a service, they couldn't be trusted not to snoop anyway.