I must be an illusion, too, then; I don't use any of those things and haven't owned a cell phone in 7 years (my Internet service comes from a local provider who doesn't have any information on me that the local government land registry doesn't already publish). Opting out may not be everyone's cup of tea and I'm not going to waste my breath arguing anyone else into it, but it is an available choice.
That doesn't mean the law shouldn't restrict people with access to their employers' customers' personal data from abusing that access for personal gain, convenience, curiosity, etc. But given a choice between the inconvenience of opting out -- which if everyone did it would instantly render all corporations bankrupt -- and allowing corporations access to my information, I'll gladly tolerate the former. I don't have a choice when it comes to the government.
Regulating the government always takes precedence over regulating private actors, because one can avoid private actors and they are (however it may seem) far less powerful. This case actually provides a perfect example: the victim in this case has just been denied justice because although there are numerous laws regulating private storage and use of personal information, there is as of today absolutely nothing to stop individual government employees from doing literally anything they want with it. When a cop decides to sell your information to criminals or give it away to gawker tabloids, your choices are to sit there and take it or sit there and take it. This may be a rare instance in which I can't agree with the EFF: as bad as the "TOS violations are criminal offenses" interpretation of the CFAA was, the interpretation that you can't do anything to stop government officials acting as individuals from doing whatever they want with the databases they can access may in fact be even worse. At a minimum, the court could and should have split hairs here: terms of service aren't criminally binding, but government policies regulating their own employees' conduct are. This cop belongs in prison, or hanging from a rope, even if people who ignore some website's TOS link don't. This decision is as big a defeat as it is a victory, unless you're a dirty cop.