from a personal perspective, it seems to me that the future of internet access WILL be a 2 tier beast, with corporate / enterprise / govt / military actually implementing a full on SDN security model, and the basic home user, being left to play catch up, and this is not necessarily a bad thing, the worst user is the one who thinks they know something, and will not listen to thoughts on 'improving' their persec.
the best user will most likely be people like our good selves, we will work in an environment where security is THE basis for all actions, and we will take that to heart, and hopefully there will be available for us, software / hardware to allow us to implement some sort of security by default at home too
it will take time, but I feel that as we have already had almost 40 years now of the old way, that maybe, just maybe, the appetite to make things safer is here, and hopefully the C level people will loosen the purse strings, as they finally come to realise that IT is no longer the necessary evil, but is in fact the cornerstone of ALL any company can ever hope to be
as I said, from a personal perspective, I have only been in IT since 2003, had 30 years as an electrician prior to that, so I AM old, and I fear I will not actually be around to witness the great change, I CAN, however, hope :o)