Re: Give the feminism a rest @fearnothing
After slogging their way through the barrage of comments from colleagues doubting their ability because of their genitalia
It doesn't happen. I've been working in tech for more than 20 years and this simply doesn't happen.
Sure, I've worked in places where there was occasional gender related banter, but it was given & received in jest, and in equal measure. Never have I worked with anyone that has made derrogatory comments about another coder because of gender. crap code, sure, but never because of gender.
the interviewers who drop blatant hints about sexual favours
Never seen or heard it happen, and most importantly, I've never done it. Sure, I've ... had enjoyable evenings (?) with female colleagues before I was married, but who the hell hasn't? One of the best programmers I ever worked with was a girl who would have left any interviewer making such remarks physically bleeding, but it never happened to her - despite being hot.
desperate lack of role models
If you think there are no women in IT worthy of being someones rolemodel, be they male or female, then that speaks volumes about you. I, however, strongly disagree.
finally land their first visit to a tech conference, and the weight of evidence is telling them that their gender is best suited to advertising via cleavage
Its telling them nothing about IT. It's telling them that sales techniques are the same wherever they go. There's a reason much of the advertising targetting women features young men in their kecks, and it is the same reason for the booth babes. Sex sells. It always has and it always will, and there is nothing intrinsically wrong with that. Ferrari won't be hiring Jo Brand to drape herself over their next release, and Channel won't be requesting my well slapped arse of a face to grace their next TV campaign either. That's life.
The constant White Knighting from certain segments of the population is as tiring for the rest of us as it is revealing of their own deep-seated prejudices and insecurities.
Paris, because its harmless fun.