Tired admin
I have four or five net facing servers and I get dinged from time to time. There is not much you can do except try to keep a low profile. I will be looking at a secure operating environment next month and hopefully, once I can prove it out, I will be able to shift things over to that -- vanilla, vanilla, vanilla.
The main way to avoid someone breaking into your server is to make sure there is not much worth stealing. Is there anyone with a serious presence on the Internet that has not been compromised at some point? I doubt it.