Re: I'm an European citizen and I hate Brexit and its perpetrators, ...
And you think that ignoring the will of the majority "bodes well for our democracies"?
Sorry, but your straw man is a stillborn. You'll have to make another one.
What I think is that one of the sides (pro-Brexit) fed you -as in "you, the British public"- almost exclusively with a deluge of manipulation, misinformation and downright lies, while the other side told you mostly the truth, although in a clumsy and disorganized way. The Remain side didn't hire media manipulation outfits to reinforce your preconceptions and target your -"you, the voters"- psychological traits by caging you in in a myriad echo chambers, something they managed to do using lots of your stolen private personal data.
...and spent vastly more than the Leave campaign
A big difference is that the Remain side did it by legal means and telling -mostly- the truth, while the other...
As for the money spent... you aren't factoring what's owed to Murdoch and other similar scum for their role in this shebang. Unfortunately when you finally learn about the true price paid, it'll probably be too late to do anything about it.
Seriously, mister Grout, if after all these months of information regarding the consequences of Brexit you can't still see how you have screwed up, perhaps it's you the one who hasn't got a clue about what a democracy is/should be.